Ana Ruiz
Relationship Coaching for Couples & Individuals
Couples and individuals partner with me to empower them to transform their relationship starting with the relationship with themselves.
Welcome! So glad you are here.
Most people who find me are struggling with some of the following issues:
Constant conflicts and non-stop fights
A sense that there’s no good way to communicate with each other
On the verge of separation or divorce
Low self-worth, self-esteem, poor self-confidence
A painful and devastating breakup
Feeling inadequate in the dating scene
Attracting emotionally unavailable partners
Disconnected from a sense of meaning and life purpose
Relationships determine the quality of our life
As humans, we are not meant to live in isolation. The conclusion of this 80-year Harvard University study by psychiatrist Robert Waldinger and his team, the most comprehensive study on human behavior ever done, is: good relationships keep us happier and healthier.
Even though it is in our biology to be together, it doesn’t always translate to knowing how to actually put it in practice and sustain a relationship until the end of our lives.
It’s very rare that as children we were raised with the tools that are necessary to maintain vibrant, healthy, aware, respectful and loving relationships. It’s not our fault, it’s just a reality of many cultures in our modern times.
However, it doesn’t have to be this way. It’s totally possible to experience a long-term relationship where there are:
Healthy communication
Ways to repair quickly after an argument
Plenty of attraction
Getting your needs met
Feeling supported and challenged in positive ways
Wanting to come home to see your partner after a long day
That’s where relationship coaching comes in.
As a relationship coach, my primary agenda is to help you transform your relationship in the shortest amount of time possible starting with transforming the relationship with yourself. This doesn’t have to take years in therapy with limited results. Relationship coaching is endless in possibilities.
Coaching with me
For Couples
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For Individuals
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Here is what my Clients are saying
Holding a safe space to feel
Easier to make life-changing decisions when you have support
When you know you deserve and are worth it of love
Clients Love
“My husband and I have tried counseling several times over our 16 years of marriage, but we were never left with any actionable steps we could apply outside of those sessions. They only seemed to keep us circling our pain. Ana has taught us how to really see each other, pinpoint our root issue, and grow empathy for one another (during conflict especially). She gave us easy homework to build connection as well as a new language during conflict that allowed us to feel seen and understood by the other. The result was amazing - the more we felt validated in our feelings, the more our issues seemed to melt away. Years-long battles no longer exist, or simply take a few easier moments to address with resolution being achieved. It’s been wonderful and we highly recommend Ana to anyone else seeking the same!.”
— Dan and Jayme
“What brought us to coaching was our lack of communication, understanding and disconnection.
Coaching has helped us realize we're different people, with different needs, and communication styles. It has also helped us to listen and get to know each other in a deeper way. It is a straightforward approach compared to traditional therapy. Ana has helped us work together and look at our own stuff to see what each of us is bringing to the relationship.”
— Glen and Chaz
“We have been to a number of other therapists before, but Ana has for been far and away the most effective assistance we have received. She asks really good questions and fosters a growth mentality. She is also good at helping with emotional regulation, injecting pauses and time-outs, making space for one person to think things through while the other one listens, and modeling how to use skills that we need to work on.”
— Eric and Katherine
Through my time with Ana she has always made me feel seen and heard, while maintaining a firm and realistic approach to solving problems. To say she has been supportive is a complete understatement. She is kind, patient and full of compassion. Ana truly goes above and beyond for her clients. She has been a lifeline through one of the most difficult times in my life and I am convinced that she is one of the man y reasons why I was able to make so much progress in short amount of time. You cannot put trust in a better person than Ana. She truly is a gift to all who are fortunate enough to work with her.
— Adrianne
Ana does an exceptional job at being a consistent, present and loving force during my healing journey. She has facilitated a program that helps me to move forward after a very difficult break-up and to heal past traumas. Her support, love and care help me to find my center, ground my energy, and gets me to think introspectively about my situation. In each session, I feel seen, understood, supported and loved.
I highly recommend working with her if you are experiencing grief, loss, or a major transition in your life. She brings a wealth of knowledge, compassion and love to each session while guiding you through your pain. I cannot recommend her enough. I am so grateful and thankful to have found her. I’m sure you will feel the same.
— Rita
Ana has helped me to heal my most painful relationship and life experiences. Every session has been a journey of healing relief, insight, and growth because she leads me through exercises that shift things quickly and transformed my life over a few sessions. She has helped me to cut down the amount of frustration and conflicts in my relationships, and she has helped me return to feeling good about myself in all that I'm doing without years of therapy. I am grateful for her presence and gentle guidance when I struggle to get back to center.
— Greg
I’m going through a separation right now and Ana and her genius in this area have gotten me back on my feet after a few sessions.
I find great comfort in talking things through with her and knowing she is there to reach out too if need be. Sometimes she offers balm to my soul in affirmations and big picture thoughts, other times its insights and amazing personalized tools.
I can’t think of a better investment than having relational-focused coaching with Ana.
— Elyssia